Ever feel invisible or exhausted trying to show up, professionally? Or do you fear being judged or misunderstood?
what’s secretly
HOLDING YOU BACK FROM SHOWING UP IN YOUR WORK?
We all develop protective strategies, patterns, secret rules, learned ways of being — modeled after who what observed was rewarded. They once kept us safe. But over time, they begin to limit our voice, our visibility, and our leadership.
Your result reveals the pattern you’ve been carrying, why it feels so hard to step forward, and where your growth wants to take you next.
THE FOUR WAYS WE HIDE — EVEN WHEN WE WANT TO STEP UP
The Good Girl
You’ve learned that being liked keeps you safe.
You’re thoughtful and trusted, but you often hold back your true opinions, avoid taking up space, and soften your voice to maintain harmony. The hidden fear: disapproval.
Your growth edge: letting yourself be seen, even when not everyone agrees.
The Lone Wolf
You rely on yourself — always.
You value depth and autonomy, but staying separate has become a form of protection. You rarely show the messy middle or invite others into your process.
The hidden fear: vulnerability and being misunderstood.
Your growth edge: letting people in so your impact can expand.
The Proving Performer
You’ve been the reliable one your whole life.
Competent, driven, steady, yet you feel you must earn visibility by overdelivering or being perfectly prepared.
The hidden fear: being exposed or not enough.
Your growth edge: speaking before you feel ready and trusting your lived experience.
The Quiet Thinker
You see deeply, but rarely speak your insight aloud.
You polish, refine, and wait for permission, afraid your ideas won’t “land” or that you’ll get it wrong.
The hidden fear: exposure and misinterpretation.
Your growth edge: sharing your thoughts mid-process and trusting your perspective.
TAKE THE TEST
This is intended to be your mirror
A way to see yourself more clearly…
not who you hope to be,
but the patterns, stories, and quiet rules that shape how you actually show up in your work.You weren’t born to mimic.
You weren’t made to perform.
You have a deeper voice, and a story that shaped it.
Let’s find it.
Your result gives you a clear understanding of the pattern that’s been shaping your voice, your confidence, and your visibility in your work.
You’ll learn:
The deeper story you’ve been operating from (often without realizing it)
Why you hold back in moments where you want to step forward
How this pattern affects your leadership presence and opportunities
What you can shift right now to show up with more clarity, courage, and authority
It’s not about labeling you.
It’s about giving you language, and a starting point.
Because once you understand why you’ve been staying small,
you can rewrite the story.
This is your permission slip to ditch the old story… show up — fully — as you, lead from your center. And stop waiting to feel "ready.":
You don’t need to change who you are.
You just need to know how your story has shaped your voice.
Take the test.
Name your pattern.
And begin the work of becoming fully heard.

